You ask why I came to Maa Kali and Kali Mandir. I like to think, perhaps, that Maa Kali called me to Herself. I hope not to come across as being elitist, because I am sure She has called each new of you as well.
I am relatively new to Maa Kali and certainly new to Kali Mandir. I have little recall about what led me to Kali Mandir. But, I attribute that to Maa Kali's invitations as well. My only role at this time in my life is to respond either negatively or positively to Her invitation. I choose positivity and have no regrets.
Maa Kali is becoming real to me as my mother, the mother I really didn' have as a child. She responds favorably to my good behaviors and aappreciate my prayers and pujas to Her. Likewise, she rebukes me when I experience anger, rage, impatience and doubt. Hopefully I please Maa more than I displease Her. I believe Kali Mandir will help me in my endeavor.